WOW! There is an image that seems incongruent. Falling rarely has lovely connotations. When I fall I usually end up with a bruise or a cut or some injury. It hurts. It hurts for a long time and I usually have a scar to show for my falling.
Falling in Love can sometimes be a painful experience. It can leave us bruised or scarred. So why use that phrase?
Like most rules in life, there is an exception. I like to think this "Falling in Love" is the exception.
Have ever been exhausted and fallen into bed? That's a nice, soft, comfortable place to fall, isn't it?
If you didn't fall into bed you'd be forced to sleep in an upright position or in a chair or somewhere else less comfortable. Falling in love is like that soft, warm sweet haven from the exhausting place we call life. It might take a try or two but when you have the perfect place to fall you will know it. You can feel it.
But if you keep love at arm's length and never decide to "fall" how will you ever get the chance to experience the feeling of total relaxation, rest and renewal of energies?
Yes, it could hurt. Yes, it could be the best feeling you've ever known.
Here are four essentials to remember:
1. let your guard down--you deserve to be happy
2. let go of checklists - human perfection does not exist
3. let go of your past and theirs - don't punish them for the sins of others
4. know you have worth and value
#LOVE #RELATIONSHIP #MARRIAGE
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