Have an Affair with your spouse!
After the new has faded from your relationship that is the time when you need to work extra hard to recapture those sparks that flew when you were dating. After being married a little while couple can fall into a routine of work and home life and forget to make time for each other. Keeping your relationship alive and exciting is important. My suggestion is committing to having a "date" night.
Decorate a box with the mementos from places you went when you first started going out. Then fill that box with date activities. Take turns pulling out a paper and doing for that night whatever it suggests. Keeping the element of surprise can make the "affair" with your spouse more thrilling. You don't have to do anything that is expensive if you don't want to. Just plan to spend the night together getting away from all the distractions life has given you. You are only limited by your imagination. You can pretend you are meeting each other for the first time.
Here are a few other example of the things you can do:
- write a love letter
- take a bath together
- go for a walk or drive together
- listen to music
- make arrangements for an overnight getaway
- give your partner a massage
- tell your partner 10 reasons why you love them
- play a game in which the loser must strip
No matter what you choose to do keep your relationship NEW
and have a life long "Affair" with your spouse!
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