The next marker given us by Paul as he describes true love in action is: "is not self-seeking".
Simply put this means one will not always insist on having things their way. Demanding things be done as they wish it to be. Large or small.
When one is in a relationship it is a sign of true love when they consider what their partner would like.
If one likes the ocean and the other the forest for a vacation destination it should be a matter of discussion. Compromising if necessary. Not insisting on your own wants every time.
Yielding to our mates interests is a beautiful way to keep harmony and balance alive in our relationship. It is a clear way to show, without words, that what they want matters as much to you as what you want.
Try this. The next time you sit down to watch YOUR favorite show with your partner instead of commandeering the remote, hand it to them. Don't ask them what they want to watch, just hand them the remote and tell them whatever they want to watch is good with you. Make your word good though. It doesn't count if you complain or sigh heavily at their choice. Starting with the small things makes accomplishing the bigger things more do-able.
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