"It always trusts".
Wow! There's a biggie! Trust. Often we enter a relationship after leaving another one. If the reason the last relationship failed is due to trust issues we tend to carry that anti-trust residue over to our new relationship. Let's face it, it's extremely hard not to. The more relationships we have with people who break our trust the more that plaque builds upon our heart, soul, and mind. We may not be aware of just how deeply our trust issues run.
However, we must concertedly work at not holding a grudge from our past against our present. It is work. But remember that our mate to has more than likely been on the hurting end of the broken trust spectrum. Clean the slate and begin anew.
So if at some time damaging information is brought to your attention you will give your mate the benefit of the doubt. Do not be quick to believe this piece of gossip before you first consider the source and second speak with your mate.
Some may have a checkered past or be in some other way undeserving of trust, try to look past what used to be and treat them on an individual basis. Set suspicion aside and extend unconditional love. Once you get to the bottom of the accusation leveled against them you may find it was unfounded. If not, you will be in a better position to make a calm and informed decision on how to move forward.
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